What is confident ?

Confident not just say something and can let ppl have confident 1. Need action and not just wait the person slowly have confident. If something not suit then just let go or maybe try another new 1 will be better. What you need and what I need, both of us can't satisfy each other. Together just suffer. Ya, I'm selfish ! You can blame me. I never blame what you did, just what I need you don't know. Can't blame anyone. 3 years, but the condition still the same. That means nothing will change anymore. Change, just the heart change.